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Raising Special Kids is Changing to My Special Kids

Raising Special Kids site is coming down soon - by the end of the month, but don't worry, I am putting together a brand new site from Raising Special Kids - and because that brand is already in use by www.raisingspecialkids.org, I am changing my site to www.my-special-kids.com. I will have the index page up and will rewrite and post the pages as I go along, updating and adding new information and experiences. Stay tuned!

My Story About Raising Special Kids

Or

How I Went From Tech Support

To Family Support

Just how does my story go? Well, it goes something like this:

So, there I was in Phoenix, Arizona, minding my own business and working as a Technical Analyst making a decent living when BAM! it all changed. Well, not exactly, but sometimes it seems that way.

I met Jennifer, who is now my wife, and she had just one daughter, Cosette. That was when I was introduced to the mental health "system of care" and my story begins.

image girls in formal attire


I didn't have a clue! 

We went to meetings and trainings and although I could understand the individual concepts, I just could not figure out how it all went together. And we could not figure out a way to really help Cosette. 

By the time she started the 5th grade, she absolutely refused to go back to school. Oh yes, and that is how I was introduced to home-schooling! We now have 3 girls attending the "Greenman Homeschool Academy", but at the time, we did not know where to start. (Personally, I refer to it as the "Greenman Homeschool Academy for Wayward Girls" but not everyone agrees with me, but this is my story and I'm sticking to it) 


Girls on Turtle at Binder Park Zoo


The Move

We got this idea that we should move back closer to our families, which is a great idea, and I am so happy our kids get to know their grandparents and that we are closer to be able to visit. However, I wasn't prepared to handle the "no visible means of support" economy in southwest Michigan and for the first time I had to worry about not just finding a good tech job, but finding a job at all. It is pretty bad when even the local pizza delivery joints won't call you back.



So I took a security job at night "guarding the farm". Literally. And it was actually a pleasant enough job, however, there were no affordable health benefits, and um, no future either. I knew I couldn't work there forever, so I started taking classes online through Western Governors University (yes, a shameless plug) which allowed me to work at my own pace and because the credits are "competence based" instead of classroom hours based, I really believe in the program of study because I know I really earned those credits!

Information Technology Image

What am I studying? 

Why Information Technology, of course. I have an AAS degree, but now I am working on my BS degree, which I hope will allow me to break back into the tech field. That was the plan! My Story goes on!

Well, two babies can really change the way you look at things, and two babies with special needs really changes things! I needed a job with health care benefits that we could actually afford. 

Now, don't get me wrong here. I had not been sitting on my, well you know, and hoping a good job offer would come a calling. I had quite a few interviews for jobs out to about a 60 mile radius. I had plenty of job offers outside of that radius, but the commute would have killed me. Anyway, the job interviews went well, but the offers - I could just not afford to work there! Mostly because of the health insurance coverage - or lack thereof, but I digress.


This is the part of my story where I really start learning and getting into the things that ended up with this website. We had slowly become more involved with the Kalamazoo system of care since we had moved here, and about this time, a job opened for a Family Support Partner at the non-profit parent information and support center for the community. They offered the best health care benefits we had seen in years, so I took the job.

And THAT is when I found out how much I really DIDN'T know! I learned as I went along, and what I didn't know I had access to resources where I could find out. Eventually, people began to seek me out for answers and as for myself - I knew I could at least ask the right questions! 


Site Build It (SBI)

What does SBI have to do with my story? I am glad you asked that question. My Story, our dream, our family dream, is to just load up and travel all over the USA. A rolling Greenman Homeschool Academy! But working for a non-profit will not a rich man make. In fact, if it weren't for a little extra on the student loans to pay for my college, we would have been homeless years ago!

The first thing I was looking for was a way to help pay for life. You know those "bill" thingies that come every month and stuff like "rent" that people expect you pay. Go figure. And OMG food! The food our family has to eat does not come off the shelf at a Walmart Superstore! Before I can even think about any kind of dream, I needed a way to make the ends meet.

I have been researching ways to earn a little extra money online for - OK - years. I've tried quite a few things and could not find a way to make it work. But over and over there was a recommendation to get something called SBI. Yeah, yeah. I checked it out and it seemed a little expensive, so I put it off.

And put it off.

And put it off.

Until one day...

I ran across another recommendation and decided that it was worth a shot.

And Hang On To Your Hats, Now Kids, Cause You're in For Quite a Ride!

Once you realize that building a business, or even just building a quality, all around good website, takes time then you are beginning to understand how to make it work! This is not an "over-night" activity and that the more time you put into it, especially at the beginning will pay off in the end.

SBI puts into practice the four concepts of a successful business, and they call it C arrow T arrow P arrow M, which stands for: 

Content - Traffic - Presell - Monetize


This is a proven, results-generating process that works no matter how you plan to monetize.

Here is the idea in a nutshell. If you build a site that over-delivers quality content, traffic will start coming to your site. The more traffic, the higher you go in the search engines and the more traffic you get. The quality and the content will Presell your customers and having a lot of presold customers who keep coming back to your site for the content makes monetizing the next natural step. It works!

This is not going to make you rich today - or even this week. It takes months to go through the process of building an SBI site, but the process is all laid out for you, so that if you follow the instructions (and yes, there is help available) and find a site concept that you are passionate about - the rest writes itself! 

You Can Do This, Too

You can do this, too! Get started expressing your passion today. I put it off and put it off and well, you get the idea. Do not fall for the "overnight riches" scams. SBI can help you build a business that will not only change your life, but last a lifetime, too. My story is proof that the process works, and it can work for you as well.

It takes hard work and time to build a profitable business. These are indisputable facts - I checked with the SBA, the Small Business Administration. SBI gives you the plan, the tools and the means to make it possible to succeed where 95% are known to fail.

For more information about Site Build It:
Site Build It Homepage

This will be the best thing you could ever do for yourself, or your family, as you can see from my story. This is how you can find the time and the money to be able to devote yourself to "raising special kids"!

The SBI! Video Tour

Take a tour of SBI through video to discover the power of SBI and how it can help you reach your dreams.
Site Build It Video Tour

This will be the best thing you could ever do for yourself, or your family, as you can see from my story. This is how you can find the time and the money to be able to devote yourself to "raising special kids"! 

More Information About Our Family

If you want to learn more about my story and my special kids, here is a site about my family. It started to be just about Anielei Rose, but it sort of grew from there...
More Information About Our Family

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